Dear Betsy,
I hope you have a lovely Christmas. I don't know what I am doing. A lot depends on the weather. I got yours and Kirstie's alike because I thought you were going to elsewhere but really I like what they say.
I have been wrapping presents and I have to get my dad to send the packages. I hope yours makes it in time. I think Markel looks like you did when you were small. I told your dad that she is beautiful and perfect. I hope they have a good Christmas.
Well, I have little news. I love you dearly. I miss you too. I wish we could be together for the Holidays.
I love you,
All my love,
Mom
My Dearest Betsy,
The happiest of memories
The nicest to recall,
Are all the Christmases we shared
When you were very small…
And even though you've grown up now
And time has changed some things,
The years can never change the love
This special greeting brings.
Have a Wonderful Christmas
I love you honey!
All my love,
Mom
Friday, December 25, 1987
Saturday, December 12, 1987
December 12, 1987
Dear Betsy,
I got your letter yesterday. So you and Kermon are through. I hope your new place is nice. I need your address and phone number. Where shall I send your and Kirstie's Christmas presents? I have no idea where Kirstie lives. I need to write her and I have Christmas cards for you both.
Betsy, I have been really sick. My ulcer is very bad and I have been too sick to do anything. The doctor put me on Zantac and Carafate. I was so weak. I am better today but I am on a very bland diet and I can't eat much at one time. Not even a salad. I don't miss it because I know how sick it would make me.
I drink antacid every 2 hours while I am awake. I had a lot of pain and vomiting of pure acid. These 2 medicines are so helpful. Two days ago I could do nothing and so weak. I have to take iron again. I have lost a few pounds. I think that is an improvement. I was up to 127# and all my belly.
What started the ulcer up again was the new back pills like Motrin and those. It is disalsid and isn't supposed to cause stomach problems. I have to take it so I have to keep the ulcer under control. I have had three bad previous ones that bleed so I know I can't eat chill or taco salad anymore.
I get Markel a darling cloth doll for ages up to 2 years. It is cute and colorful. Next year will be lots of fun buying for her. What did you get her? She is so young for much. My parents got her a teddy bear which says "My First Teddy."
Our weather is cold and windy now. This time of year I get depressed. I can't go anywhere and I miss parties, dancing, etc. I go to bed most nights at 7 pm and stay in bed until 7 am. What a life? I can't even shop at the mall. I can't walk much and they are all so crowded. I don't even have a Christmas tree.
I wish I could see you for Christmas. I miss you so much. Thanks again for the pictures. You are so pretty and beautiful. How is the asthma? I hope better. You know, I pray for you every night. I really do love you.
My parents are coming tomorrow and bringing a few groceries. I had them get a box of cards for Christmas. I am going to wrap all the presents. Then they have to be boxed.
Bob gave me a box with 35 petit fours and they are dark chocolate except for 7 which are white and spell Grandma. Really pretty. He comes to see me but he is grumpy most of the time. His BP is high. I know he doesn't feel well. He wants me to take him places to eat, etc.
Well, I hope and pray you are well and happy. Please write me soon. I miss you. Remember, Betsy, honey, I love you very much.
All my love,
Mom
I got your letter yesterday. So you and Kermon are through. I hope your new place is nice. I need your address and phone number. Where shall I send your and Kirstie's Christmas presents? I have no idea where Kirstie lives. I need to write her and I have Christmas cards for you both.
Betsy, I have been really sick. My ulcer is very bad and I have been too sick to do anything. The doctor put me on Zantac and Carafate. I was so weak. I am better today but I am on a very bland diet and I can't eat much at one time. Not even a salad. I don't miss it because I know how sick it would make me.
I drink antacid every 2 hours while I am awake. I had a lot of pain and vomiting of pure acid. These 2 medicines are so helpful. Two days ago I could do nothing and so weak. I have to take iron again. I have lost a few pounds. I think that is an improvement. I was up to 127# and all my belly.
What started the ulcer up again was the new back pills like Motrin and those. It is disalsid and isn't supposed to cause stomach problems. I have to take it so I have to keep the ulcer under control. I have had three bad previous ones that bleed so I know I can't eat chill or taco salad anymore.
I get Markel a darling cloth doll for ages up to 2 years. It is cute and colorful. Next year will be lots of fun buying for her. What did you get her? She is so young for much. My parents got her a teddy bear which says "My First Teddy."
Our weather is cold and windy now. This time of year I get depressed. I can't go anywhere and I miss parties, dancing, etc. I go to bed most nights at 7 pm and stay in bed until 7 am. What a life? I can't even shop at the mall. I can't walk much and they are all so crowded. I don't even have a Christmas tree.
I wish I could see you for Christmas. I miss you so much. Thanks again for the pictures. You are so pretty and beautiful. How is the asthma? I hope better. You know, I pray for you every night. I really do love you.
My parents are coming tomorrow and bringing a few groceries. I had them get a box of cards for Christmas. I am going to wrap all the presents. Then they have to be boxed.
Bob gave me a box with 35 petit fours and they are dark chocolate except for 7 which are white and spell Grandma. Really pretty. He comes to see me but he is grumpy most of the time. His BP is high. I know he doesn't feel well. He wants me to take him places to eat, etc.
Well, I hope and pray you are well and happy. Please write me soon. I miss you. Remember, Betsy, honey, I love you very much.
All my love,
Mom
Wednesday, December 9, 1987
December 9, 1987
Dear Betsy,
This is not your Christmas card. I have a special one for you. Your present should be at Soapstone. I mailed a box by UPS. My health isn't good and our apartment is a mess. My hip has bursitis and is infected. My ankles and feet are swollen. I miss you but I can't afford to call plus I never know when to call. How is work going?
Our bathroom floor is half soaked with water. The apartment above has the problem and of course, it is a weekend and no one is around. Plus, Bob has no trousers and I needed to laundry them. I took all the stuff down the basement and loaded the wasing machine and put soap in…pushed my buttons and went to put my 75 cents in and discover it is jammed.
Everything is getting to me. I feel like my nerves can't take much more. Bob sleeps so much. I made a good supper but he is still sleeping. In half an hour someone is bring me a cup of coffee from Friendly's. I love coffee and it makes me pee. Yesterday our friends brought boxes of things from Bob's freezer and refrig. She let a turkey, 2 chickens, spare ribs, etc. defrost for 4 days so I had to throw them out. I do have butter and cheese. This really upset me. So this is a depressing letter. I love you and hope things are getting good for you.
I went looking for spaghetti sauce and spaghetti in the storage area in a cabinet and could only find the sauce. So we have eggs Delmonico. It is good but hard on my legs.
Sandy and Kirstie want to come for Christmas but I haven't got the money. I'd love to have them. I am afraid this is going to be a very depressing Christmas. We are poor and life looks gloomy. I miss you so much. My health robbed me of you and your teen years. I raised you but your Dad gets the credit. I am so sorry I got sick and he made me leave and not come in 6 months unless I was better. Well, I wasn't so you all went and Alison to Washington DC.
At least we had this visit this summer and I really loved every minute. You are a wonderful girl.
What is the David situation? What are you doing for Christmas? I hope you have a very nice Christmas. I have you in my thoughts all the time. Bob likes you so much. I am glad. He always wants to know about you.
Well, I guess I will close now and get this in the mail. I hope you are happy and well. Please write me. I miss hearing from you. Remember I love you very much and you are special in my life. I heard "You Light Up My Life" today and cried. I do remember your Installation.
Take care. Write.
All My love,
Mom and Bob
This is not your Christmas card. I have a special one for you. Your present should be at Soapstone. I mailed a box by UPS. My health isn't good and our apartment is a mess. My hip has bursitis and is infected. My ankles and feet are swollen. I miss you but I can't afford to call plus I never know when to call. How is work going?
Our bathroom floor is half soaked with water. The apartment above has the problem and of course, it is a weekend and no one is around. Plus, Bob has no trousers and I needed to laundry them. I took all the stuff down the basement and loaded the wasing machine and put soap in…pushed my buttons and went to put my 75 cents in and discover it is jammed.
Everything is getting to me. I feel like my nerves can't take much more. Bob sleeps so much. I made a good supper but he is still sleeping. In half an hour someone is bring me a cup of coffee from Friendly's. I love coffee and it makes me pee. Yesterday our friends brought boxes of things from Bob's freezer and refrig. She let a turkey, 2 chickens, spare ribs, etc. defrost for 4 days so I had to throw them out. I do have butter and cheese. This really upset me. So this is a depressing letter. I love you and hope things are getting good for you.
I went looking for spaghetti sauce and spaghetti in the storage area in a cabinet and could only find the sauce. So we have eggs Delmonico. It is good but hard on my legs.
Sandy and Kirstie want to come for Christmas but I haven't got the money. I'd love to have them. I am afraid this is going to be a very depressing Christmas. We are poor and life looks gloomy. I miss you so much. My health robbed me of you and your teen years. I raised you but your Dad gets the credit. I am so sorry I got sick and he made me leave and not come in 6 months unless I was better. Well, I wasn't so you all went and Alison to Washington DC.
At least we had this visit this summer and I really loved every minute. You are a wonderful girl.
What is the David situation? What are you doing for Christmas? I hope you have a very nice Christmas. I have you in my thoughts all the time. Bob likes you so much. I am glad. He always wants to know about you.
Well, I guess I will close now and get this in the mail. I hope you are happy and well. Please write me. I miss hearing from you. Remember I love you very much and you are special in my life. I heard "You Light Up My Life" today and cried. I do remember your Installation.
Take care. Write.
All My love,
Mom and Bob
Tuesday, December 1, 1987
December 1, 19t
Dear Betsy,
Today it is raining and snowing at the same time and cold. It isn't sticking. Kelly is even cold.
How was your Thanksgiving? Min was terrible. I saw no one. My parents and Aunt Ida went to a fancy place. The wheater was too cold for me. They never even came to see me. I ate a salad, cottage cheese and spinach. Bob wanted to take me out to eat but it was cold.
Bob and I went to Fisches for soup, salad and fruit bar for $3.29. It was very good. We went on Saturday and I ran a few errands. We got ice cream at a special store. I can't do much when it's so cold or too hot. My feet got hot and hurt really bad. I then did all my laundry and it took 3 1/2 hours and 18 quarters. That room is so hot, it really ruined my feet. Then my electric blanket quit working and I can't get out to get a new twin blue one. The malls are so packed. I can't walk that much anymore. My back is better. My parents actually got my groceries for me and I paid them. I think I made them feel guilty. They don't help me much.
I watch TV all afternoon. I listen to tapes in the morning and read.
I was so depressed Thanksgiving. I could have gone to our community room for free dinner but it was hot and packed and all old people. I don't really belong in here in that respect. I can go get a mug of coffee a couple of times a day (15 cents each). It is a good buy and good coffee. I guess I am the only one in the family that loves coffee. Does Kirstie drink coffee? Your dad didn't and Bob doesn't. I couldn't get up in the morning if I didn't have something hot to drink. I hot hot oatmeal this morning. I made it with milk. I lost 6# but it is coming back. I drink Swiss Miss cocoa and I put marshmallows in it. I made it with 1/2 milk. I have it before I go to bed. Some nights I warm up a cup of eggnog. That's why I gain weight but I don't care.
So how are you honey? What did you do for Thanksgiving? Where are you going or doing for Christmas? Where do I send your present? What about Kirstie? Please give me her address and phone number.
Well, I will close so I can mail it. I love you. I hope you are feeling better by now. Take care of yourself. Write real soon.
All my love,
Mom
I love you, honey
Today it is raining and snowing at the same time and cold. It isn't sticking. Kelly is even cold.
How was your Thanksgiving? Min was terrible. I saw no one. My parents and Aunt Ida went to a fancy place. The wheater was too cold for me. They never even came to see me. I ate a salad, cottage cheese and spinach. Bob wanted to take me out to eat but it was cold.
Bob and I went to Fisches for soup, salad and fruit bar for $3.29. It was very good. We went on Saturday and I ran a few errands. We got ice cream at a special store. I can't do much when it's so cold or too hot. My feet got hot and hurt really bad. I then did all my laundry and it took 3 1/2 hours and 18 quarters. That room is so hot, it really ruined my feet. Then my electric blanket quit working and I can't get out to get a new twin blue one. The malls are so packed. I can't walk that much anymore. My back is better. My parents actually got my groceries for me and I paid them. I think I made them feel guilty. They don't help me much.
I watch TV all afternoon. I listen to tapes in the morning and read.
I was so depressed Thanksgiving. I could have gone to our community room for free dinner but it was hot and packed and all old people. I don't really belong in here in that respect. I can go get a mug of coffee a couple of times a day (15 cents each). It is a good buy and good coffee. I guess I am the only one in the family that loves coffee. Does Kirstie drink coffee? Your dad didn't and Bob doesn't. I couldn't get up in the morning if I didn't have something hot to drink. I hot hot oatmeal this morning. I made it with milk. I lost 6# but it is coming back. I drink Swiss Miss cocoa and I put marshmallows in it. I made it with 1/2 milk. I have it before I go to bed. Some nights I warm up a cup of eggnog. That's why I gain weight but I don't care.
So how are you honey? What did you do for Thanksgiving? Where are you going or doing for Christmas? Where do I send your present? What about Kirstie? Please give me her address and phone number.
Well, I will close so I can mail it. I love you. I hope you are feeling better by now. Take care of yourself. Write real soon.
All my love,
Mom
I love you, honey
Tuesday, November 24, 1987
November 24, 1987
Dear Betsy,
I am so sorry you aren't feeling well. I hope you are better soon. Take call the Amoxicillin. It should help. It was good hearing from you.
My stomach has a lot of acid. So I have to be careful what I eat and not eat too much at one time. I take Tagament to reduce the acid. It does help and prevents ulcers. I already had three bad ones.
What are you doing for Thanksgiving? I am staying here. It is Grandpa's birthday soon. They are going to a special buffet and taking Aunt Ida. This is a time of year that brings back good memories. I miss you and all of it. I wish I could have stayed healthy. We'd still all be together. Christmas is soon. Are you going to your dads? What about Kirstie? I don't have a new address. Should I send your gift to your dads? Let me know.
These two coupons expire soon so use them.
My cat Kelly is my buddy. She is so sweet and lots of company. I tell her all my troubles and she listens. I comb her everyday.
It was good to say hi to Kermon. He seems really nice. That is good he takes care of you when you are sick. I do hope you are better. I wish I lived in VA. Then we could see each other.
Grandma said to say "hi." She also said nicely that she hoped you and Kermon were happy. She is so busy. She is Secretary of Eastern Stars and an officer in all the clubs. Really. She has her nose in it all - luncheons - suppers, etc. She and Grandpa are rarely home. Grandpa's jaw and cheek pain are gone because of the surgery. He has tickling numbness.
Bob is slipping. He doesn't eat. He is poor and doesn't know how to handle money. I do things for him when I can. He takes me out to eat. He still can be so nasty. Not like he used to be. He is so different from the Bob I married. We were legally separated so I can stay on his insurance. It is very good plus I have medicare. My total income per month is $360. Not much. Bob took me to Red Lobster on Sunday and I had Boston Bluefish. Really good. Coffee is 85 cents since Bob has been so sick his whole personality has changed. He doesn't take care of himself and his apartment is a real mess to say the least.
Well, I hope you have a nice Thanksgiving. I love you so very much. Write soon. Give Kermon my love. Take care. Get better soon.
All my love,
Mom
I am so sorry you aren't feeling well. I hope you are better soon. Take call the Amoxicillin. It should help. It was good hearing from you.
My stomach has a lot of acid. So I have to be careful what I eat and not eat too much at one time. I take Tagament to reduce the acid. It does help and prevents ulcers. I already had three bad ones.
What are you doing for Thanksgiving? I am staying here. It is Grandpa's birthday soon. They are going to a special buffet and taking Aunt Ida. This is a time of year that brings back good memories. I miss you and all of it. I wish I could have stayed healthy. We'd still all be together. Christmas is soon. Are you going to your dads? What about Kirstie? I don't have a new address. Should I send your gift to your dads? Let me know.
These two coupons expire soon so use them.
My cat Kelly is my buddy. She is so sweet and lots of company. I tell her all my troubles and she listens. I comb her everyday.
It was good to say hi to Kermon. He seems really nice. That is good he takes care of you when you are sick. I do hope you are better. I wish I lived in VA. Then we could see each other.
Grandma said to say "hi." She also said nicely that she hoped you and Kermon were happy. She is so busy. She is Secretary of Eastern Stars and an officer in all the clubs. Really. She has her nose in it all - luncheons - suppers, etc. She and Grandpa are rarely home. Grandpa's jaw and cheek pain are gone because of the surgery. He has tickling numbness.
Bob is slipping. He doesn't eat. He is poor and doesn't know how to handle money. I do things for him when I can. He takes me out to eat. He still can be so nasty. Not like he used to be. He is so different from the Bob I married. We were legally separated so I can stay on his insurance. It is very good plus I have medicare. My total income per month is $360. Not much. Bob took me to Red Lobster on Sunday and I had Boston Bluefish. Really good. Coffee is 85 cents since Bob has been so sick his whole personality has changed. He doesn't take care of himself and his apartment is a real mess to say the least.
Well, I hope you have a nice Thanksgiving. I love you so very much. Write soon. Give Kermon my love. Take care. Get better soon.
All my love,
Mom
Wednesday, November 18, 1987
November 18, 1987
Dear Betsy,
I got your nice letter yesterday. I am glad you are happy. I am really concerned about Sandy. That is one reason I couldn't move there. Sandy wasn't certain she and Mark would stay in Provo more than a year. Well, I would have been there all alone. I couldn't afford to move there. I hope Mark gets a better job. She says Markel is really growing. She is so pretty. I feel so helpless for Sandy.
Did I tell you my back was really hurting me? It hasn't been bad since 1976. I went to an orthopedic doctor on Monday. He examined me and got x-ray. He showed me the x-rays and shook his head. Well, my degenerative disc disease of L5S1 is really bad. He can no longer do a fusion or inject the space with cortisone. I have to take a very potent medicine called Feldene. In 5-10 years I will be stiff. He said he was sorry but nothing can really be done. The medicine he gave can cause ulcers so I have to be very careful. The medicine is good and helps the pain. I guess my body is aging too fast. He said I was very young for all that back trouble.
Next day
Maybe when winter is over can could meet 1/2 way. I may be able to drive that far. It would be so good to see you. I couldn't afford a motel for long but I'd love to be with your again.
Sounds like your party was a success. I used to love to entertain.
I think Aunt Ida is getting me an electric can opener for Christmas. My parents may get me a small microwave. I hope.
Kelly is my buddy. You'd love her but would probably have an attack from her. She sleeps with me.
It is cold here but sunny. I read a lot. My back is worse when it is so cold and damp. I like dreary days thought because the don't hurt my feet so much.
I have to sit on the floor most of the day. It is cooler down there. I keep the heat on but crack the window open for my feet.
My ortho doctor also wants me to get hydrotherapy for my back. He is afraid it may hurt my feet because the water is warm. He said a back brace wouldn't help now. I used to wear one. I hated the thing. It is so uncomfortable.
Bob wants to take me out to eat this afternoon. It is a hard decision. I'd like a good meal but that w/c weighs 50#.
I bought some eggnog and I heat it every night and drink a cup. I love it. I also love McDonald's bacon, egg and cheese biscuit for breakfast. I would like those gift certificates.
My Christmas list for you is enclosed. I don't expect you to buy me much. All I need is your love.
Remember, honey I love you very much and I miss you and Kirstie. I wish Kirstie would write me. I am so glad you do. It means so much to me. Well, I will close.
All my love,
Your mom
I love you!!!
I got your nice letter yesterday. I am glad you are happy. I am really concerned about Sandy. That is one reason I couldn't move there. Sandy wasn't certain she and Mark would stay in Provo more than a year. Well, I would have been there all alone. I couldn't afford to move there. I hope Mark gets a better job. She says Markel is really growing. She is so pretty. I feel so helpless for Sandy.
Did I tell you my back was really hurting me? It hasn't been bad since 1976. I went to an orthopedic doctor on Monday. He examined me and got x-ray. He showed me the x-rays and shook his head. Well, my degenerative disc disease of L5S1 is really bad. He can no longer do a fusion or inject the space with cortisone. I have to take a very potent medicine called Feldene. In 5-10 years I will be stiff. He said he was sorry but nothing can really be done. The medicine he gave can cause ulcers so I have to be very careful. The medicine is good and helps the pain. I guess my body is aging too fast. He said I was very young for all that back trouble.
Next day
Maybe when winter is over can could meet 1/2 way. I may be able to drive that far. It would be so good to see you. I couldn't afford a motel for long but I'd love to be with your again.
Sounds like your party was a success. I used to love to entertain.
I think Aunt Ida is getting me an electric can opener for Christmas. My parents may get me a small microwave. I hope.
Kelly is my buddy. You'd love her but would probably have an attack from her. She sleeps with me.
It is cold here but sunny. I read a lot. My back is worse when it is so cold and damp. I like dreary days thought because the don't hurt my feet so much.
I have to sit on the floor most of the day. It is cooler down there. I keep the heat on but crack the window open for my feet.
My ortho doctor also wants me to get hydrotherapy for my back. He is afraid it may hurt my feet because the water is warm. He said a back brace wouldn't help now. I used to wear one. I hated the thing. It is so uncomfortable.
Bob wants to take me out to eat this afternoon. It is a hard decision. I'd like a good meal but that w/c weighs 50#.
I bought some eggnog and I heat it every night and drink a cup. I love it. I also love McDonald's bacon, egg and cheese biscuit for breakfast. I would like those gift certificates.
My Christmas list for you is enclosed. I don't expect you to buy me much. All I need is your love.
Remember, honey I love you very much and I miss you and Kirstie. I wish Kirstie would write me. I am so glad you do. It means so much to me. Well, I will close.
All my love,
Your mom
I love you!!!
Tuesday, November 10, 1987
November 10, 1987
Dear Betsy,
Hi! Sandy sent your pictures and letter on Friday. I love the pictures. I put htem in my photo album. You are really pretty and so is Kirstie. I could use even a little of your boobs. I lost out on them.
Sandy and Mark sound desparate for money. Markel is fine. I think Mark is looking for jobs. Sandy is working. She called to see if I have any money and I can't help. I only get $360 a month for social security and that is it. I hope they can work something out. It cost me of $700 to go to Utah.
I read in the morning and watch TV soaps in the afternoon. I like "Young and Restless". Aunt Ida lives for it. It is an hour she can't miss. I like "Bold and Beautiful" and "General Hospital."
My teeth are in bad shape. I think I am going to have one tooth pulled out and I hate too. My teeth hurt all the time. They are so sensitive.
Bob has been in and out of the hospital 25 out of 30 days for really high BP. He is home now and on lots of medicine. I help him a lot. We are separated.
My cat is fine. She has doubled her food intake but still nice size. I love her. She sleeps with me. Oh remember the stuffed Siamese cat you gave me when you were 12. Well, it is on my bed and she knocked it over the other day. She must think it is real. She is so cute.
It is cold here. I am trapped inside. It's the wind chill. I sit all day on a pillow case on the floor. It keeps my feet cook but very uncomfortable. My back aches a lot.
Next day
My dad is getting my groceries for me. They make a big deal out of it. They never come see me. They are too busy. Do you realize Christmas is almost here? I need to do a little shopping. I don't even know your sizes. My mother was just 68. You are the only grandchild who remembered her. I am proud of you!!
Tomorrow it is supposed to be 50-55 so I can get out a little. I am on a diet I have a huge bulge below my waist and it stays there since I am immobile and can't exercise. I gained 8# in less than 2 months. The doctor increased my thyroid. Plus I was on a medicine for my feet and legs that can cause weight gain so I stopped it. I am no longer on antidepressants. I just wish I were healthy and no problems. I must have inherited all bad genes. I work on my journal at times. Do you write in one?
Well, I don't have much news. I hope you are well and happy. Tell Kermon I said "HI". When are you going to come and see me? I miss you. Remember, I love you, honey, so very much. If my health had survived and I had stayed with the Mormon church in California, I strongly believe your dad and I would have made it. November 23 we would have been married since 1963 - 24 years. The other night when I was trying to sleep, all I could think about was how we met, dated, marriage, etc. I have always loved him. I regret what happened. I am no longer angry, bitter, etc. He will always have a place in my heart.
Well, I want to get this mailed soon. Take care, honey, and write me.
Thanks again for the pictures. I love you.
All my love,
Mom
Hi! Sandy sent your pictures and letter on Friday. I love the pictures. I put htem in my photo album. You are really pretty and so is Kirstie. I could use even a little of your boobs. I lost out on them.
Sandy and Mark sound desparate for money. Markel is fine. I think Mark is looking for jobs. Sandy is working. She called to see if I have any money and I can't help. I only get $360 a month for social security and that is it. I hope they can work something out. It cost me of $700 to go to Utah.
I read in the morning and watch TV soaps in the afternoon. I like "Young and Restless". Aunt Ida lives for it. It is an hour she can't miss. I like "Bold and Beautiful" and "General Hospital."
My teeth are in bad shape. I think I am going to have one tooth pulled out and I hate too. My teeth hurt all the time. They are so sensitive.
Bob has been in and out of the hospital 25 out of 30 days for really high BP. He is home now and on lots of medicine. I help him a lot. We are separated.
My cat is fine. She has doubled her food intake but still nice size. I love her. She sleeps with me. Oh remember the stuffed Siamese cat you gave me when you were 12. Well, it is on my bed and she knocked it over the other day. She must think it is real. She is so cute.
It is cold here. I am trapped inside. It's the wind chill. I sit all day on a pillow case on the floor. It keeps my feet cook but very uncomfortable. My back aches a lot.
Next day
My dad is getting my groceries for me. They make a big deal out of it. They never come see me. They are too busy. Do you realize Christmas is almost here? I need to do a little shopping. I don't even know your sizes. My mother was just 68. You are the only grandchild who remembered her. I am proud of you!!
Tomorrow it is supposed to be 50-55 so I can get out a little. I am on a diet I have a huge bulge below my waist and it stays there since I am immobile and can't exercise. I gained 8# in less than 2 months. The doctor increased my thyroid. Plus I was on a medicine for my feet and legs that can cause weight gain so I stopped it. I am no longer on antidepressants. I just wish I were healthy and no problems. I must have inherited all bad genes. I work on my journal at times. Do you write in one?
Well, I don't have much news. I hope you are well and happy. Tell Kermon I said "HI". When are you going to come and see me? I miss you. Remember, I love you, honey, so very much. If my health had survived and I had stayed with the Mormon church in California, I strongly believe your dad and I would have made it. November 23 we would have been married since 1963 - 24 years. The other night when I was trying to sleep, all I could think about was how we met, dated, marriage, etc. I have always loved him. I regret what happened. I am no longer angry, bitter, etc. He will always have a place in my heart.
Well, I want to get this mailed soon. Take care, honey, and write me.
Thanks again for the pictures. I love you.
All my love,
Mom
Saturday, October 24, 1987
October 24, 1987
Dear Betsy,
I just wrote Sandy. She called yesterday and is bleeding heavily. She went to the doctor and he is going to watch her. She may have to have a D&C. Markel is fine and still nursing. Women who breast feed rarely bleed until 6-9 months after they deliver. I never did. She is on an estrogen pill also and started bleeding after she took it. It doesn't sound good. She hasn't sent the pictures and I asked to please send them.
By the way. Grandma was so thrilled to get your card. She didn't say who it was from but started describing it and said the color was lavender and I said "Oh, that must be from Betsy." She read the card and said it was from you. Anyway, you are the only grandchild who sent her one and she was happy about that. She is 68. She and Grandpa are going to the Smokey Mountains and Grand Chapter for a few days. They leave tomorrow. They are busy doing something most of the time. Keeps them active. Grandpa feels pretty good since the surgery took away the pain.
My feet are bad today. I have a bladder infection and I think the medicine I started last night for it is causing them to be so red and hot. It sure nauseated me.
So how are your jobs? I bet you keep busy. How is Kermon? Does he go to school or work or both?
Bob has been in the hospital almost a month with high BP and I mean high. He seems better now but it is still 150/90 to 190/100. His arteries are shot. Mine are about as bad. Plus I keep gaining weight from the medicine they are giving me for my feet. I gain a # a month. I weight 130# now and I don't eat that much really.
I am not active and get little exercise because of my feet. They were so very swollen when I got home from Provo. It took a week on almost bed rest to get them down. I loved Utah but the sun is hotter there and it was 80-85 degrees and the sun really bothers my feet.
I couldn't afford to move there really. Sandy really wanted me to and I had to disappoint her. I hated to say no. I always wanted to live in the west but I guess it is better here for my legs. Markel is so very beautiful and pretty. Mark says she already weighs 10#. Sandy is a good mother. She said she needs to go to work. They really need money. I guess Mark isn't making much. I hope things work out. They seem very happy. I took some pictures and I will get them developed and get you some.
Kirstie called. She wants the dishes. I think you and Kermon and Kirstie and Will should come here and go to the storage place and unload everything and take what you want. Grandma pays $20 a month to store my things and some of Bob's. Think about it. Talk to Kirstie. I can't go there and unload it. It is on the 2nd story and a ladder to climb. I can't do it.
Well, I will close now. Please remember I love you so much and I miss you. Take care of yourself and write. I love hearing from you. Remember I love you.
All my love,
Mom
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I just wrote Sandy. She called yesterday and is bleeding heavily. She went to the doctor and he is going to watch her. She may have to have a D&C. Markel is fine and still nursing. Women who breast feed rarely bleed until 6-9 months after they deliver. I never did. She is on an estrogen pill also and started bleeding after she took it. It doesn't sound good. She hasn't sent the pictures and I asked to please send them.
By the way. Grandma was so thrilled to get your card. She didn't say who it was from but started describing it and said the color was lavender and I said "Oh, that must be from Betsy." She read the card and said it was from you. Anyway, you are the only grandchild who sent her one and she was happy about that. She is 68. She and Grandpa are going to the Smokey Mountains and Grand Chapter for a few days. They leave tomorrow. They are busy doing something most of the time. Keeps them active. Grandpa feels pretty good since the surgery took away the pain.
My feet are bad today. I have a bladder infection and I think the medicine I started last night for it is causing them to be so red and hot. It sure nauseated me.
So how are your jobs? I bet you keep busy. How is Kermon? Does he go to school or work or both?
Bob has been in the hospital almost a month with high BP and I mean high. He seems better now but it is still 150/90 to 190/100. His arteries are shot. Mine are about as bad. Plus I keep gaining weight from the medicine they are giving me for my feet. I gain a # a month. I weight 130# now and I don't eat that much really.
I am not active and get little exercise because of my feet. They were so very swollen when I got home from Provo. It took a week on almost bed rest to get them down. I loved Utah but the sun is hotter there and it was 80-85 degrees and the sun really bothers my feet.
I couldn't afford to move there really. Sandy really wanted me to and I had to disappoint her. I hated to say no. I always wanted to live in the west but I guess it is better here for my legs. Markel is so very beautiful and pretty. Mark says she already weighs 10#. Sandy is a good mother. She said she needs to go to work. They really need money. I guess Mark isn't making much. I hope things work out. They seem very happy. I took some pictures and I will get them developed and get you some.
Kirstie called. She wants the dishes. I think you and Kermon and Kirstie and Will should come here and go to the storage place and unload everything and take what you want. Grandma pays $20 a month to store my things and some of Bob's. Think about it. Talk to Kirstie. I can't go there and unload it. It is on the 2nd story and a ladder to climb. I can't do it.
Well, I will close now. Please remember I love you so much and I miss you. Take care of yourself and write. I love hearing from you. Remember I love you.
All my love,
Mom
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Saturday, October 10, 1987
October 10, 1987
Dear Betsy,
It was so good to get your letters. I hope Sandy sends those pictures. I would love to have them.
Markel is beautiful and pretty, etc. Her face is nicely shaped. She reminds me of you when you were that little. That was 21 years ago. Boy, I am getting old.
Sandy says she is going to have to go to work. They have so little money. I can't help them because I am poor also.
I can't move to Utah as much as I would like to. I don't have the money to get there. My legs are so swollen on the trip home. It has taken a week off them. I haven't had much energy lately. I have to push myself to get going. I was okay while in Utah. I couldn't afford the motel room and meals for 8 or 9 days so I had to come home. It is 48 degrees and no sun. I came to Rudy's to get a hot bowl of chili. It is really seasoned. I eat just about everything now. Bob has taught me that. He is in the hospital for the 3rd time in 3 weeks. His BP is up. Grandma and Grandpa are okay. Grandpa had the surgery on his jaw and no more pain. It is numb. Your Grandma goes everywhere all the time. I don't know how she does it. She is tiny and thin. She'll be 68 soon. Grandpa will be 70 in November. Aunt Ida is lazy like me only she has reason to be. She is 85. My appetite was so good and now it has died down. I weigh 126# which is good for me. All my weight is in the belly and waist.
I should go to the grocery store. I have a bad cough. Change in the climates I guess. It was hot in Utah. I do believe the sun would be too hot on my feet there. I can no longer tolerate sun.
So you are sounding happy. Is everything going okay? How is Kermon? Are you going to school or working? Your dad sent me a post card from Hawaii which was nice. I sent him and Alison one of Salt Lake Temple. I hope it doesn't upset Alison.
I went to court about the divorce the day before I left for Utah and the trial had to be post pond and he has to be served with papers again because they made a mistake.
Well, I will close now. Thanks again for writing and caring about me. My life is lonely and I miss all of you so much. I wish I could see you. You mean so much to me. Write me again soon. I love you with all my heart.
All my love,
Mom
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It was so good to get your letters. I hope Sandy sends those pictures. I would love to have them.
Markel is beautiful and pretty, etc. Her face is nicely shaped. She reminds me of you when you were that little. That was 21 years ago. Boy, I am getting old.
Sandy says she is going to have to go to work. They have so little money. I can't help them because I am poor also.
I can't move to Utah as much as I would like to. I don't have the money to get there. My legs are so swollen on the trip home. It has taken a week off them. I haven't had much energy lately. I have to push myself to get going. I was okay while in Utah. I couldn't afford the motel room and meals for 8 or 9 days so I had to come home. It is 48 degrees and no sun. I came to Rudy's to get a hot bowl of chili. It is really seasoned. I eat just about everything now. Bob has taught me that. He is in the hospital for the 3rd time in 3 weeks. His BP is up. Grandma and Grandpa are okay. Grandpa had the surgery on his jaw and no more pain. It is numb. Your Grandma goes everywhere all the time. I don't know how she does it. She is tiny and thin. She'll be 68 soon. Grandpa will be 70 in November. Aunt Ida is lazy like me only she has reason to be. She is 85. My appetite was so good and now it has died down. I weigh 126# which is good for me. All my weight is in the belly and waist.
I should go to the grocery store. I have a bad cough. Change in the climates I guess. It was hot in Utah. I do believe the sun would be too hot on my feet there. I can no longer tolerate sun.
So you are sounding happy. Is everything going okay? How is Kermon? Are you going to school or working? Your dad sent me a post card from Hawaii which was nice. I sent him and Alison one of Salt Lake Temple. I hope it doesn't upset Alison.
I went to court about the divorce the day before I left for Utah and the trial had to be post pond and he has to be served with papers again because they made a mistake.
Well, I will close now. Thanks again for writing and caring about me. My life is lonely and I miss all of you so much. I wish I could see you. You mean so much to me. Write me again soon. I love you with all my heart.
All my love,
Mom
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Thursday, September 24, 1987
September 24, 1987
Dear Betsy,
Well, I made it to see the baby. Sandy and Mark. Markel is such a beauty. Hard to believe. It is hot here. It is good to see everyone. Holding Markel for the first time was wonderful. I am in a motel. I am not going to live here in Utah. I'll write my feelings later. Hope you are well. I love you.
Love,
Mom
Well, I made it to see the baby. Sandy and Mark. Markel is such a beauty. Hard to believe. It is hot here. It is good to see everyone. Holding Markel for the first time was wonderful. I am in a motel. I am not going to live here in Utah. I'll write my feelings later. Hope you are well. I love you.
Love,
Mom
Sunday, August 16, 1987
August 16, 1987
Dear Betsy,
I haven't heard from you for a while. I hope you are well. I am trapped in because of the extreme heat. I hate summer because of my feet and legs.
Sandy's baby is small. Grandma and Grandpa are paying for an OB consult which she saw. The baby's heart beat is a little slow too. She took a stress test yesterday. I do pray all will be well. Keep the baby and her in your prayers. I am concerned. She is working hard and has her hands full. She is very tired. She has applied for welfare and is supposed to get it soon.
Bob moved into an apartment around the corner from me. He is on the phone or over her a lot.
I made a jello salad with fruit early today. I made oatmeal but I still am hungry. I at at 6 am. Did I tell you that I got 2 CEU's for RN by answering all questions right? I want to do one on emphysema soon. I haven't much energy. Grandma and Grandpa brought some fruit goodies, meat, milk, etc. three days ago. They stayed 45 minutes.
Today is ice cream social for Eastern Stars and it's going to be 95 degrees or more. Aunt Ida is going.
Are you ready for college? I bet you are excited. I was when I went to Nursing school 24 years ago.
Kelly is my buddy. She stays in the bedroom all day. I sleep on the hideaway bed at night by the cooler. Last night I drank a beer. Tasted good.
Well, I am out of news. Write me. Remember I love you and miss you. Take care and write.
All my love,
Mom
I haven't heard from you for a while. I hope you are well. I am trapped in because of the extreme heat. I hate summer because of my feet and legs.
Sandy's baby is small. Grandma and Grandpa are paying for an OB consult which she saw. The baby's heart beat is a little slow too. She took a stress test yesterday. I do pray all will be well. Keep the baby and her in your prayers. I am concerned. She is working hard and has her hands full. She is very tired. She has applied for welfare and is supposed to get it soon.
Bob moved into an apartment around the corner from me. He is on the phone or over her a lot.
I made a jello salad with fruit early today. I made oatmeal but I still am hungry. I at at 6 am. Did I tell you that I got 2 CEU's for RN by answering all questions right? I want to do one on emphysema soon. I haven't much energy. Grandma and Grandpa brought some fruit goodies, meat, milk, etc. three days ago. They stayed 45 minutes.
Today is ice cream social for Eastern Stars and it's going to be 95 degrees or more. Aunt Ida is going.
Are you ready for college? I bet you are excited. I was when I went to Nursing school 24 years ago.
Kelly is my buddy. She stays in the bedroom all day. I sleep on the hideaway bed at night by the cooler. Last night I drank a beer. Tasted good.
Well, I am out of news. Write me. Remember I love you and miss you. Take care and write.
All my love,
Mom
Saturday, August 8, 1987
August 8, 1987
Dear Betsy,
I was certain I started a letter to you and stamped an envelope. Anyway, I have searched all over and can't find it. So I'll try again.
I have no energy. My hemoglobin is low and I take potent iron. My appetite is poor and I want to eat out which I can't. I need to save money to go and see the grand baby. I am mixed up about moving. I can accept most things but I worry about finding the right doctor who does start all over again. I've been through too much.
My apartment was exterminated last week along with everyone else. Bob kept Kelly but she is back now. I missed her. She just came to sit where I am writing.
I found the only copy of our sealing and put it in my book of remembrance. I have gained 5# which puts me at 125# which is good.
My new glasses are very strong and I am having trouble seeing everything. I have to wear them all the time. Not used to that. I wish you were here. Our weather is cloudy today. Bob is supposed to move today around the hall from me. He was mean to me yesterday and I got hurt psychologically. Anyway, I was driving and he hit me. I was right anyway but that is it.
I think I will go to church and McDonald's for breakfast for a bacon, egg, and cheese biscuit. I get my coffee free because I have a golden buckeye card. My breakfast costs $1.21.
I am sleeping on the hideaway bed so I can keep cool. I open it every night. A mess but the bedroom is too warm.
I had a delicious taco salad at Bob Evans yesterday. I used 7 containers of salsa.
I will need your new address. Let me know. I hate Saturday and Sunday. there is no one to call. I don't have many friends because I have moved so much.
I hope you are breathing okay and doing well. Please write. Remember I love you dearly. Miss you too.
Love,
Mom
I was certain I started a letter to you and stamped an envelope. Anyway, I have searched all over and can't find it. So I'll try again.
I have no energy. My hemoglobin is low and I take potent iron. My appetite is poor and I want to eat out which I can't. I need to save money to go and see the grand baby. I am mixed up about moving. I can accept most things but I worry about finding the right doctor who does start all over again. I've been through too much.
My apartment was exterminated last week along with everyone else. Bob kept Kelly but she is back now. I missed her. She just came to sit where I am writing.
I found the only copy of our sealing and put it in my book of remembrance. I have gained 5# which puts me at 125# which is good.
My new glasses are very strong and I am having trouble seeing everything. I have to wear them all the time. Not used to that. I wish you were here. Our weather is cloudy today. Bob is supposed to move today around the hall from me. He was mean to me yesterday and I got hurt psychologically. Anyway, I was driving and he hit me. I was right anyway but that is it.
I think I will go to church and McDonald's for breakfast for a bacon, egg, and cheese biscuit. I get my coffee free because I have a golden buckeye card. My breakfast costs $1.21.
I am sleeping on the hideaway bed so I can keep cool. I open it every night. A mess but the bedroom is too warm.
I had a delicious taco salad at Bob Evans yesterday. I used 7 containers of salsa.
I will need your new address. Let me know. I hate Saturday and Sunday. there is no one to call. I don't have many friends because I have moved so much.
I hope you are breathing okay and doing well. Please write. Remember I love you dearly. Miss you too.
Love,
Mom
Friday, July 31, 1987
July 31, 1987
Dear Betsy,
Well, I don't know when I will get this mailed since I have no stamps. But I decided to write anyway. Sandy called last night. She was down. She needs a $3600 loan for Mark to get a job. I can't help her. She said she was going to call you. Did she? She wants a job but can't get one because she is pregnant. I want to go to Provo when she has the baby. I may get a low income apartment there for two months. Yet I am worried about moving. I should go and be happy. I worry about my feet and legs and all the moving trauma. My apartment will have to get air conditioning. My apartment here is small but nice for sun and has good air conditioning. I sleep in the Living room on sofa bed because bedroom is too warm. I hope this heat ends soon.
My dad had a big tooth pulled today. It is bleeding. My new glasses aren't any good. Things blurry. I can't see with or without them.
I am anemic and have to take prescription iron. I feel better but they constipate me. Can't win. If I don't take them I just lay around.
August 3
Well, I got a stamp so I can mail this. I wake up very early. I go to bed early too. I even try to nap one hour every afternoon. I feel better. I got exterminated the other day and people from church helped a lot. Bob sleeps most all day and up all night. So he doesn't bother me. Except --- except that he expects me to cash his check or take him, get him Lotto tickets, take him out to supper. Then he is mean to me. I need to move away except he covers me with beautiful medical insurance. He even pays the premium. But I can't live like this. I wish I could work. I will do my nursing '87 for continuing education. I got the last one all night. I was proud of myself.
Well, I will close. Take care. Write. Give me new address. I love you, honey. Remember that.
All my love,
mom
Well, I don't know when I will get this mailed since I have no stamps. But I decided to write anyway. Sandy called last night. She was down. She needs a $3600 loan for Mark to get a job. I can't help her. She said she was going to call you. Did she? She wants a job but can't get one because she is pregnant. I want to go to Provo when she has the baby. I may get a low income apartment there for two months. Yet I am worried about moving. I should go and be happy. I worry about my feet and legs and all the moving trauma. My apartment will have to get air conditioning. My apartment here is small but nice for sun and has good air conditioning. I sleep in the Living room on sofa bed because bedroom is too warm. I hope this heat ends soon.
My dad had a big tooth pulled today. It is bleeding. My new glasses aren't any good. Things blurry. I can't see with or without them.
I am anemic and have to take prescription iron. I feel better but they constipate me. Can't win. If I don't take them I just lay around.
August 3
Well, I got a stamp so I can mail this. I wake up very early. I go to bed early too. I even try to nap one hour every afternoon. I feel better. I got exterminated the other day and people from church helped a lot. Bob sleeps most all day and up all night. So he doesn't bother me. Except --- except that he expects me to cash his check or take him, get him Lotto tickets, take him out to supper. Then he is mean to me. I need to move away except he covers me with beautiful medical insurance. He even pays the premium. But I can't live like this. I wish I could work. I will do my nursing '87 for continuing education. I got the last one all night. I was proud of myself.
Well, I will close. Take care. Write. Give me new address. I love you, honey. Remember that.
All my love,
mom
Tuesday, June 30, 1987
June 20, 1987
Dear Betsy,
I got your letter today. I was going to write you anyway. Thanks for caring and the letter.
Days go so slow for me. It is such a lonely life. It is so hot here for my feet and legs. I go to bed early and get up early. Did I give you my new phone number? It is …
So Kirstie has moved out. Do you miss your fights? How is your study?
I love my glasses and looked everywhere. Well, today I found them and I am so glad. I got to get my eyes examined. I had to get 2 new RX's yesterday for $50 and only enough for 15 days. It is terrible. I got a Taco Salad but it made my belly upset but it was delicious.
tomorrow, my parents are taking me to brunch at Tinkos. Aunt Ida is going and we leave here at 10:30 and go to Perrysburg. It will be hard on me but my dad will be happy. I am glad they are paying for it.
June 21
It is Sunday AM and I just tried to call you but Alison said you were gone for the weekend. I am sorry I missed you. We went to the brunch and had a 1/2 hour wait. It was huge and really good. I even ate dessert after lots of fruit, etc. Then we came here and I gave Grandpa a little gift.
June 23
Bob and I would have been remarried 3 years day. He forgot but we are going to LePeeps for fancy breakfast at 10 am tomorrow. I will have the most delicious oatmeal and blueberries and cream, juice and whole wheat muffin and pot of coffee. Really good and expensive too.
Yesterday I finished the baby blanket I made for Sandy Hodge's baby. It is 2 yards long and 60 inches wide and all bound by wide yellow satin. It is so pretty. I hope she likes it.
Last night and tonight "Women in White" are on. It is so good and I will stay up late. I decided to go to bed at 10:15 and up and on my feet in 12 hours. The days are not so long that way.
Did I tell you I start on Intermediate sewing class on July 9th in the evenings?
Bob took me to the Olive Garden yesterday and I had a huge virgin Mary, big salad and really good eggplant. I was stuffed. He is good to me at times.
So you are dating Paul. Tell me about him. Is he nice, good looking, etc. and good to you? What about Kermon? By the way Grandma and Grandpa still have his clothes he left at their house. Well, I am out of news. Write me soon. I love you so much.
All my love,
Mom
I got your letter today. I was going to write you anyway. Thanks for caring and the letter.
Days go so slow for me. It is such a lonely life. It is so hot here for my feet and legs. I go to bed early and get up early. Did I give you my new phone number? It is …
So Kirstie has moved out. Do you miss your fights? How is your study?
I love my glasses and looked everywhere. Well, today I found them and I am so glad. I got to get my eyes examined. I had to get 2 new RX's yesterday for $50 and only enough for 15 days. It is terrible. I got a Taco Salad but it made my belly upset but it was delicious.
tomorrow, my parents are taking me to brunch at Tinkos. Aunt Ida is going and we leave here at 10:30 and go to Perrysburg. It will be hard on me but my dad will be happy. I am glad they are paying for it.
June 21
It is Sunday AM and I just tried to call you but Alison said you were gone for the weekend. I am sorry I missed you. We went to the brunch and had a 1/2 hour wait. It was huge and really good. I even ate dessert after lots of fruit, etc. Then we came here and I gave Grandpa a little gift.
June 23
Bob and I would have been remarried 3 years day. He forgot but we are going to LePeeps for fancy breakfast at 10 am tomorrow. I will have the most delicious oatmeal and blueberries and cream, juice and whole wheat muffin and pot of coffee. Really good and expensive too.
Yesterday I finished the baby blanket I made for Sandy Hodge's baby. It is 2 yards long and 60 inches wide and all bound by wide yellow satin. It is so pretty. I hope she likes it.
Last night and tonight "Women in White" are on. It is so good and I will stay up late. I decided to go to bed at 10:15 and up and on my feet in 12 hours. The days are not so long that way.
Did I tell you I start on Intermediate sewing class on July 9th in the evenings?
Bob took me to the Olive Garden yesterday and I had a huge virgin Mary, big salad and really good eggplant. I was stuffed. He is good to me at times.
So you are dating Paul. Tell me about him. Is he nice, good looking, etc. and good to you? What about Kermon? By the way Grandma and Grandpa still have his clothes he left at their house. Well, I am out of news. Write me soon. I love you so much.
All my love,
Mom
Saturday, June 13, 1987
June 13, 1987
Dear Betsy,
Here I am writing you again. A lot has happened.
I have been very dwon and unable to sleep. I have a lot on my mind. My parents are really upsetting. The brakes on their precious car which is what I drive are shot. I told them and told them. Now everything will need replacing. My dad knows nothing about cars.
I had to go to my doctor to get some help. He put me on my estrogen only increased it. Plus he wants me to take progestrone for 10 days a month. I am going for a pap smear on July 10th I will gain weight from the medicine. I don't eat that much really. I am making a batch of the most delicious chili. I get up early. Bob is coming later to eat with me. We love hot spicy chili. I learned to cook so different with Bob. I even love avadcados. I try lots of things. I love italian and mexican food. I don't like rice, macaroni, nooles or pastas. I love vegetables, cottage cheese. Before I go to bed I heat a cup of milk and add 1 tsp of nesltles Quick. Relaxing. Plus I take my calcium since I am getting older and I don't want osteoporous.
I am without a car and I hate it. I can't do anything. I have to go early because of the heat. I wish summer were over for my sake. I like cool days and dreary. The sun really gets my feet and knees. I don't know if I'll get to church tomorrow either or even where to go.
I am still mixed up about that. I like the Episcopal church but it isn't air conditioning. I think I'll go back to being a Presbyterian and forget all others. Between religion, my disease, my parnets and Bob, it is no wonder I am a basket case. You know, it broke my heart not to go to Sandy's wedding or get to meet Mark and see all of you. I was so upset that day. I had my ticket all paid for and I lost my $200 or I wish everyone could understand (including me) that I am no longer able to do much. I love you so much and your sisters and I am missing so much. It is very sad. But I can't dwell on it. I pray for you every day. I do feel better today and I slept better.
Bob and I may not go back. I like my freedom. I guess I belong alone with the conditions I have to live under. I like things neat and he doesn't. I can't take clutter.
Well, the brakes were through to metal but my dad is going to pay for it all. Thank God for that.
Well, I guess I'll close now. Please write and understand my confusion. I love you, dearly. I miss you. come and see me.
All my love,
Mom
Here I am writing you again. A lot has happened.
I have been very dwon and unable to sleep. I have a lot on my mind. My parents are really upsetting. The brakes on their precious car which is what I drive are shot. I told them and told them. Now everything will need replacing. My dad knows nothing about cars.
I had to go to my doctor to get some help. He put me on my estrogen only increased it. Plus he wants me to take progestrone for 10 days a month. I am going for a pap smear on July 10th I will gain weight from the medicine. I don't eat that much really. I am making a batch of the most delicious chili. I get up early. Bob is coming later to eat with me. We love hot spicy chili. I learned to cook so different with Bob. I even love avadcados. I try lots of things. I love italian and mexican food. I don't like rice, macaroni, nooles or pastas. I love vegetables, cottage cheese. Before I go to bed I heat a cup of milk and add 1 tsp of nesltles Quick. Relaxing. Plus I take my calcium since I am getting older and I don't want osteoporous.
I am without a car and I hate it. I can't do anything. I have to go early because of the heat. I wish summer were over for my sake. I like cool days and dreary. The sun really gets my feet and knees. I don't know if I'll get to church tomorrow either or even where to go.
I am still mixed up about that. I like the Episcopal church but it isn't air conditioning. I think I'll go back to being a Presbyterian and forget all others. Between religion, my disease, my parnets and Bob, it is no wonder I am a basket case. You know, it broke my heart not to go to Sandy's wedding or get to meet Mark and see all of you. I was so upset that day. I had my ticket all paid for and I lost my $200 or I wish everyone could understand (including me) that I am no longer able to do much. I love you so much and your sisters and I am missing so much. It is very sad. But I can't dwell on it. I pray for you every day. I do feel better today and I slept better.
Bob and I may not go back. I like my freedom. I guess I belong alone with the conditions I have to live under. I like things neat and he doesn't. I can't take clutter.
Well, the brakes were through to metal but my dad is going to pay for it all. Thank God for that.
Well, I guess I'll close now. Please write and understand my confusion. I love you, dearly. I miss you. come and see me.
All my love,
Mom
Thursday, June 11, 1987
June 11, 1987
Dear Betsy,
I mailed your last letter on Monday and got your package that afternoon. The gown is lovely. It fits too. I really love it. Thank you so very much. I love you and I do appreciate your love.
I don't know when I wrote you this week that Bob and I are trying to work things out. I took my phone off the hook for several days and I wouldn't let him in. I finally met him and talked to him. I have been so mixed up. I need someone and I do love him. He truly is patient and loves me. I can't leave a part. So he is over here and sleeps on the sofa. This morning I was up at 5:30 and it was cool. I ate and I went with him to the White Hut. I had coffee and bought him breakfast. I then went to Dunkin Donuts and got 1 1/2 dozen donuts. Then I got a few groceries. The sad part is the brakes on the car. They are grinding and it has to go for probably over $300 work. I have $130 charged on Sohio for air conditioning. I don't know what to do about money. My mom owns the car and they pay for nothing. Only Bob understands.
Tomorrow I go to the doctor and have to spend a lot of money on medicine refills. So I am very poor.
I would love to move away from all this but I guess I can't.
So how are you and your love life? What is going on? We could write a book. You know Bob really understands me and helps me a lot. I love with a lot of pain. My legs and feet burn and throb so much at night and morning. It is a hard life. If it weren't for you girls and Bob, I'd probably quit.
Tonight Kirstie graduates. Seems like you just did. Time goes faster as a person gets older. It is true. I hope she has a nice graduation. I miss these times. I missed all of yours. At least I got to install you as Worthy Advisor and now you are a beautiful Eastern Star. I am so proud of you.
I hope you understand about me and Bob. I do care for him and I guess we really belong together. He is really good to me.
Sandy called yesterday. She is fine. She and Mark went to the doctor and she is 6 months pregnant. All is well. She is on vitamins. She is leaving Sunday for Provo to babysit for Mark's niece for a month.
I have a new phone number… I don't have to give it out.
Well, I am out of news. I love you honey and thank you for the beautiful gift. It was so nice of you. You are special and a wonderful daughter. I wish I was more of your life. I missed so much but I can't dwell on it. I love you.
All my love,
Mom
Write me honey!!!
I mailed your last letter on Monday and got your package that afternoon. The gown is lovely. It fits too. I really love it. Thank you so very much. I love you and I do appreciate your love.
I don't know when I wrote you this week that Bob and I are trying to work things out. I took my phone off the hook for several days and I wouldn't let him in. I finally met him and talked to him. I have been so mixed up. I need someone and I do love him. He truly is patient and loves me. I can't leave a part. So he is over here and sleeps on the sofa. This morning I was up at 5:30 and it was cool. I ate and I went with him to the White Hut. I had coffee and bought him breakfast. I then went to Dunkin Donuts and got 1 1/2 dozen donuts. Then I got a few groceries. The sad part is the brakes on the car. They are grinding and it has to go for probably over $300 work. I have $130 charged on Sohio for air conditioning. I don't know what to do about money. My mom owns the car and they pay for nothing. Only Bob understands.
Tomorrow I go to the doctor and have to spend a lot of money on medicine refills. So I am very poor.
I would love to move away from all this but I guess I can't.
So how are you and your love life? What is going on? We could write a book. You know Bob really understands me and helps me a lot. I love with a lot of pain. My legs and feet burn and throb so much at night and morning. It is a hard life. If it weren't for you girls and Bob, I'd probably quit.
Tonight Kirstie graduates. Seems like you just did. Time goes faster as a person gets older. It is true. I hope she has a nice graduation. I miss these times. I missed all of yours. At least I got to install you as Worthy Advisor and now you are a beautiful Eastern Star. I am so proud of you.
I hope you understand about me and Bob. I do care for him and I guess we really belong together. He is really good to me.
Sandy called yesterday. She is fine. She and Mark went to the doctor and she is 6 months pregnant. All is well. She is on vitamins. She is leaving Sunday for Provo to babysit for Mark's niece for a month.
I have a new phone number… I don't have to give it out.
Well, I am out of news. I love you honey and thank you for the beautiful gift. It was so nice of you. You are special and a wonderful daughter. I wish I was more of your life. I missed so much but I can't dwell on it. I love you.
All my love,
Mom
Write me honey!!!
Sunday, June 7, 1987
June 7, 1987
Dear Betsy,
I received a letter from you yesterday. I love to hear from you. So you are going to George Mason. Is that in Reston? Will you still love at home? It is hard to believe Kirstie is going to graduate. I am proud of you. Now, if both you and I could put our love life on the right track! Sounds like you are going to have a ball at the beach. I did things like that when I was younger. Your Dad and I went boating a lot and we loved it. I always go sunburned. Bob drives me crazy for the most part. When he leaves me alone my ulcer is okay. Yesterday it felt close to bleeding. Today I am okay. He called at 6:45 and I didn't answer. So he rang my phone 75 times and it drove me crazy. When it quit, I took it off the hook and left it. I hope you aren't trying to get me.
I can't come for Kirstie's graduation because of my legs and I'll be upset because I'll miss it. I love her just as much. I wish she would write me or call. I don't know what to do for a gift. She would probably appreciate the money. You came to visit me. We had a very nice visit, didn't we. You know, Bob really thinks you are great! He puts so much pressure on me and makes me feel guilty. I must not care too much for him. I feel like his slave. He has me cook, do dishes, etc. I hardly have many dishes when he is not here. I am trying to eat foods high in calcium.
Now, as far as know who is "Mr. Right," you will when it happens. Sounds like Dave and you were the happiest. Now I knew your dad was Mr. Right and I felt very much in love. I still think a lot of him. We really had a good marriage. He traveled too much and I worked too much. I should never worked so much on 3-11 shift. I missed a lot of all of your lives. Then my health went bad. Sometimes I think we were happiest up Sugarloaf Mountain. We love it there and I worked hard and so did your dad. I miss it. I could have had a great career but we moved a lot and then my legs got so bad. I did work hard. So did your dad. I am so happy I had three daughters and they are well and love life. Soon I'll have a grandchild. Hard to believe.
So I made a mess of my life. I probably should never married Bob. I was lonely, sick, etc. We only knew each other for one and 1/2 months before sivore. He was nice to everyone. Now he is mad at the world. I still see good sides of him. Somehow I don't think things could work out. What do you think? Your dad never used bad language. I just heard on TV that you never get over your first love. I think that is true. What do you think?
I bought a Farberware 8 cup coffee maker. I had a new automatic drip and hated it. I make 4 cups of coffee every morning which is 2 big mugs full. It is delicious. Then I go to the community room for a small cup around 10 am. Do you ever drink coffee? Nurses love coffee.
I can't exercise anymore because I have a abdominal hernia. I walk a little in the closest mall and climb some steps. So I got a little bigger belly but I can't help it. I weight 122$#.
Bob took me to Red Lobster for lunch yesterday. I had a virgin Mary with celery. Then I had scallops and shrimp with tossed salad and cauliflower. Everything was delicious. Then we went to TCBY for yogurt. Oh, I love that stuff. My friend, Judy goes to get it every day. It is a long way for me.
Grandpa got groceries for me on Friday. It is hard for me to do in the heat. Grandma and he are nice to me now. She is so busy. Today she has hives. She is back working plus the Eastern Stars. I dearly loved the picture of you. You are so beautiful, really.
I will always treasure it. Thank you so much. I thank you so much for your letters, etc. I really appreciate them so much.
Kelly is fine. She loves the afternoon sun. I really love her. She listens to me a lot. She is a great comfort. The days are so long.
Well, I am out of news. Remember I love you so very much. I'd love to see you. Maybe you could come before school starts. Are you going to work too?
I miss you, honey. Write soon.
All my love,
Mom
I received a letter from you yesterday. I love to hear from you. So you are going to George Mason. Is that in Reston? Will you still love at home? It is hard to believe Kirstie is going to graduate. I am proud of you. Now, if both you and I could put our love life on the right track! Sounds like you are going to have a ball at the beach. I did things like that when I was younger. Your Dad and I went boating a lot and we loved it. I always go sunburned. Bob drives me crazy for the most part. When he leaves me alone my ulcer is okay. Yesterday it felt close to bleeding. Today I am okay. He called at 6:45 and I didn't answer. So he rang my phone 75 times and it drove me crazy. When it quit, I took it off the hook and left it. I hope you aren't trying to get me.
I can't come for Kirstie's graduation because of my legs and I'll be upset because I'll miss it. I love her just as much. I wish she would write me or call. I don't know what to do for a gift. She would probably appreciate the money. You came to visit me. We had a very nice visit, didn't we. You know, Bob really thinks you are great! He puts so much pressure on me and makes me feel guilty. I must not care too much for him. I feel like his slave. He has me cook, do dishes, etc. I hardly have many dishes when he is not here. I am trying to eat foods high in calcium.
Now, as far as know who is "Mr. Right," you will when it happens. Sounds like Dave and you were the happiest. Now I knew your dad was Mr. Right and I felt very much in love. I still think a lot of him. We really had a good marriage. He traveled too much and I worked too much. I should never worked so much on 3-11 shift. I missed a lot of all of your lives. Then my health went bad. Sometimes I think we were happiest up Sugarloaf Mountain. We love it there and I worked hard and so did your dad. I miss it. I could have had a great career but we moved a lot and then my legs got so bad. I did work hard. So did your dad. I am so happy I had three daughters and they are well and love life. Soon I'll have a grandchild. Hard to believe.
So I made a mess of my life. I probably should never married Bob. I was lonely, sick, etc. We only knew each other for one and 1/2 months before sivore. He was nice to everyone. Now he is mad at the world. I still see good sides of him. Somehow I don't think things could work out. What do you think? Your dad never used bad language. I just heard on TV that you never get over your first love. I think that is true. What do you think?
I bought a Farberware 8 cup coffee maker. I had a new automatic drip and hated it. I make 4 cups of coffee every morning which is 2 big mugs full. It is delicious. Then I go to the community room for a small cup around 10 am. Do you ever drink coffee? Nurses love coffee.
I can't exercise anymore because I have a abdominal hernia. I walk a little in the closest mall and climb some steps. So I got a little bigger belly but I can't help it. I weight 122$#.
Bob took me to Red Lobster for lunch yesterday. I had a virgin Mary with celery. Then I had scallops and shrimp with tossed salad and cauliflower. Everything was delicious. Then we went to TCBY for yogurt. Oh, I love that stuff. My friend, Judy goes to get it every day. It is a long way for me.
Grandpa got groceries for me on Friday. It is hard for me to do in the heat. Grandma and he are nice to me now. She is so busy. Today she has hives. She is back working plus the Eastern Stars. I dearly loved the picture of you. You are so beautiful, really.
I will always treasure it. Thank you so much. I thank you so much for your letters, etc. I really appreciate them so much.
Kelly is fine. She loves the afternoon sun. I really love her. She listens to me a lot. She is a great comfort. The days are so long.
Well, I am out of news. Remember I love you so very much. I'd love to see you. Maybe you could come before school starts. Are you going to work too?
I miss you, honey. Write soon.
All my love,
Mom
Sunday, May 31, 1987
May 31, 1987
Dear Betsy,
Got your letter the other day. Said you were though with Kermon. Sandy called and said you and he were dating. You sound as bad as me and Bob.
I had cabin fever today. It has been mid 90s and a little cooler. Bob took me to Long John Silver's for early supper. We had broiled halibut. Then we went over the street and got hot fudge sundaes. I am gaining weight. I have to take lots of estrogen and that gains weight. I then went to the mall and walked a little. My feet gor really hot so I am soaking them in cold ice water. I also had 2 cups coffee (my downfall) I love coffee.
Sandy and Mark seem very happy. I am getting anxious to be a grandma. I am making her lots of difficult baby clothes. I will start a sewing class in July. I hope I can learn a lot. I haven't sewn for so long. I am making a big quilt also, like I made when Kirstie was little.
I hear you and Kirstie are going to the beach. That is nice.
Kelly is a lot of company. She is shedding now. I comb her every day and she purrs. You'd love her only she would probably make you wheeze. How is your asthma doing? I have rales in the lower lobes of my lungs. Probably getting emphysema. My Grandpa Deakin had it bad.
I haven't much news. Bob is coming over for the evening. He is company. Time goes so slow for me. I get up early. I am going to start staying up lair and hopefully sleep a long time.
I hope you and Kirstie are well. When does Kirstie graduate? I love you, honey. Write soon.
I miss you.
All my love,
Mom
Got your letter the other day. Said you were though with Kermon. Sandy called and said you and he were dating. You sound as bad as me and Bob.
I had cabin fever today. It has been mid 90s and a little cooler. Bob took me to Long John Silver's for early supper. We had broiled halibut. Then we went over the street and got hot fudge sundaes. I am gaining weight. I have to take lots of estrogen and that gains weight. I then went to the mall and walked a little. My feet gor really hot so I am soaking them in cold ice water. I also had 2 cups coffee (my downfall) I love coffee.
Sandy and Mark seem very happy. I am getting anxious to be a grandma. I am making her lots of difficult baby clothes. I will start a sewing class in July. I hope I can learn a lot. I haven't sewn for so long. I am making a big quilt also, like I made when Kirstie was little.
I hear you and Kirstie are going to the beach. That is nice.
Kelly is a lot of company. She is shedding now. I comb her every day and she purrs. You'd love her only she would probably make you wheeze. How is your asthma doing? I have rales in the lower lobes of my lungs. Probably getting emphysema. My Grandpa Deakin had it bad.
I haven't much news. Bob is coming over for the evening. He is company. Time goes so slow for me. I get up early. I am going to start staying up lair and hopefully sleep a long time.
I hope you and Kirstie are well. When does Kirstie graduate? I love you, honey. Write soon.
I miss you.
All my love,
Mom
Sunday, May 24, 1987
Mary 24, 1987
Dear Betsy,
I am at the donut in and thought I would write you. I dropped Bob off at the coin shop for an hour. We had a lovely meal at the Olive Garden. I love that Italian salad, soup and entrees. It is so good.
Well, I am back home now. I now have 2 patterns to make 2 or 3 complete layette sets for Sandy's baby. It will really be a challenge as I haven't sewn in many years. I have a new machine I have never used. I am getting excited about being a grandma. I hope all is well with Sandy.
I have my feet in a bucket of very cold water hoping to cool them. It doens't always help.
May 25
I ran some errands this morning and am having a big salad, cottage cheese and broccoli and some hot peppers. I love lots of spice foods but for some reason I crave cottage cheese. I don't eat it every day. I have some bananas and fresh strawberries. I still love salad or cole slaw bit is no longer my main meal. I eat well. I weight 125#. Tomorrow I go to the doctor but I feel pretty good. I read a lot since I can't walk for exercise. I really wish there was something I could do to be in better shape. I can no longer do sit ups because I have a hernia right below my navel.
So are you keeping busy? I bet you are getting anxious to move and go to college. I am proud of you. You have accomplished a lot in your life. Always remember that I love you dearly and always will. I think of you so often and cherish my memories of you. I wish I could see more of you.
Bob and I went to Rudy's and I had a lot bowl of delicious chili and a salad. I like it with cayenne pepper. That is in the North end. Then I drove all the way to the south end and got us each a delicious cup of french vanilla yogurt. It tasts liek ice cream. I must not quite so much. Tomorrow I go to the doctor. It is back to the south end. I need a few groceries.
I don't know my true feelings about Bob. I know he loves me very much. He is a lot of care truthfully. I also need his company. Life alone is awful lonely. Bob has to move to a one bedroom apartment. Would you believe they put him in an apartment across the hall from me. He has to move by June 1st. I like my independence at times and he is always around. Anyways. I am mixed up about him. He is good to me.
Well, I will close now. Remember I love you very much and I miss you. I'd love to see you. Write soon.
I love you,
All my love,
Mom
I am at the donut in and thought I would write you. I dropped Bob off at the coin shop for an hour. We had a lovely meal at the Olive Garden. I love that Italian salad, soup and entrees. It is so good.
Well, I am back home now. I now have 2 patterns to make 2 or 3 complete layette sets for Sandy's baby. It will really be a challenge as I haven't sewn in many years. I have a new machine I have never used. I am getting excited about being a grandma. I hope all is well with Sandy.
I have my feet in a bucket of very cold water hoping to cool them. It doens't always help.
May 25
I ran some errands this morning and am having a big salad, cottage cheese and broccoli and some hot peppers. I love lots of spice foods but for some reason I crave cottage cheese. I don't eat it every day. I have some bananas and fresh strawberries. I still love salad or cole slaw bit is no longer my main meal. I eat well. I weight 125#. Tomorrow I go to the doctor but I feel pretty good. I read a lot since I can't walk for exercise. I really wish there was something I could do to be in better shape. I can no longer do sit ups because I have a hernia right below my navel.
So are you keeping busy? I bet you are getting anxious to move and go to college. I am proud of you. You have accomplished a lot in your life. Always remember that I love you dearly and always will. I think of you so often and cherish my memories of you. I wish I could see more of you.
Bob and I went to Rudy's and I had a lot bowl of delicious chili and a salad. I like it with cayenne pepper. That is in the North end. Then I drove all the way to the south end and got us each a delicious cup of french vanilla yogurt. It tasts liek ice cream. I must not quite so much. Tomorrow I go to the doctor. It is back to the south end. I need a few groceries.
I don't know my true feelings about Bob. I know he loves me very much. He is a lot of care truthfully. I also need his company. Life alone is awful lonely. Bob has to move to a one bedroom apartment. Would you believe they put him in an apartment across the hall from me. He has to move by June 1st. I like my independence at times and he is always around. Anyways. I am mixed up about him. He is good to me.
Well, I will close now. Remember I love you very much and I miss you. I'd love to see you. Write soon.
I love you,
All my love,
Mom
Monday, May 11, 1987
May 11, 1987
Dear Betsy,
It was wonderful for you to call me and talk to me on Mother's Day. I was so happy you called. It really meant a lot to me. Thank you so much.
Sandy called for 5 minutes in the afternoon. She is find and sounded good. She said Mark was tired but they were going to church.
I have been trapped inside. It made it to 90* here yesterday and sunny. It is supposed to cool tomorrow. I have to get blood work tomorrow morning. I see my doctor on Wednesday. I feel good so I hope all is well.
My parents and Aunt Ida came to see me yesterday and I don't think my parents haven't come since January. Aunt Ida has never been here. She liked my apartment. Mom and dad gave me a pretty summer robe but I'll have to shorten it. I wore your and gown and robe set last night.
Well, I went to the beauty shop Friday and a man permed it and then he cut it. I am just sick and I didn't tell you yesterday. It is not even 1 inch long. I had such beautiful hair. I went and bought a cute wig. I am so embarrassed and I guess I learned the hard way. What a price to pay. There is hardly any perm since he cut it all away. I should have just had it washed and set and let it grow.
I don't really have much news. I wanted to write you and thank you so much for calling on Mother's day. I treasure that.
Do you ever go to church? I do when weather permits. I study my scriptures and read a lot. It helps me. I want to start sewing again or play my violin. I could use some clothes and have a lot of material from years ago. My weight is stable at 120#. That is good for me. I wish I could get more exercise. I'd love to walk but the weather is too hot. I like an exercise bike. I could use some cardiovascular exercise.
Well, honey, I will close. Remember that I love you dearly and always will. You have a special place in my heart. Enjoy life and don't work too hard. Write soon.
All my love,
mom
I love you!!!
It was wonderful for you to call me and talk to me on Mother's Day. I was so happy you called. It really meant a lot to me. Thank you so much.
Sandy called for 5 minutes in the afternoon. She is find and sounded good. She said Mark was tired but they were going to church.
I have been trapped inside. It made it to 90* here yesterday and sunny. It is supposed to cool tomorrow. I have to get blood work tomorrow morning. I see my doctor on Wednesday. I feel good so I hope all is well.
My parents and Aunt Ida came to see me yesterday and I don't think my parents haven't come since January. Aunt Ida has never been here. She liked my apartment. Mom and dad gave me a pretty summer robe but I'll have to shorten it. I wore your and gown and robe set last night.
Well, I went to the beauty shop Friday and a man permed it and then he cut it. I am just sick and I didn't tell you yesterday. It is not even 1 inch long. I had such beautiful hair. I went and bought a cute wig. I am so embarrassed and I guess I learned the hard way. What a price to pay. There is hardly any perm since he cut it all away. I should have just had it washed and set and let it grow.
I don't really have much news. I wanted to write you and thank you so much for calling on Mother's day. I treasure that.
Do you ever go to church? I do when weather permits. I study my scriptures and read a lot. It helps me. I want to start sewing again or play my violin. I could use some clothes and have a lot of material from years ago. My weight is stable at 120#. That is good for me. I wish I could get more exercise. I'd love to walk but the weather is too hot. I like an exercise bike. I could use some cardiovascular exercise.
Well, honey, I will close. Remember that I love you dearly and always will. You have a special place in my heart. Enjoy life and don't work too hard. Write soon.
All my love,
mom
I love you!!!
Saturday, May 2, 1987
May 2, 1987
Dear Betsy,
Well, believe it or not I am in St. Charles Hospital and have been for three days. I have an IV in and sodium and potassium. My electrolytes were all messed up. I feel better now. My legs and feet are a mess here. I wake up at 6 AM. I had some coffee and did some walking. Bob is coming at noon. Monday we would have been married 5 years. We are still married. He can be so nice and then mean at the same time. I think he is giving me an ulcer. When I am in here I have no ulcer pains. When I am home my ulcer is terrible. He wants me to do laundry, get groceries, take him to the bank, etc. I want my freedom. Yet I love him and hate to treat him bad. He wants to take me to the Red Lobster after I get out.
I still need to get the air conditioning in my car fixed. It needs a fuse.
Grandma is still her snippy busy body. I guess she is going to Scotland this summer. She is the Grand Rep. She is a big shot and it has gone to her head.
I am staring. I hope they bring breakfast soon. This is the 1st food I got to choose. So far it have been poor.
So how are you? How is Sandy doing? She called Wednesday. Is she for sure going to San Diego? I think they should be together. What do you think? She sounds happy.
I wrote Kirstie. Tell her I was sick when I wrote her. I love all of you.
I need to go on a new diet called "The Swimsuit Diet." It sounds nutritious. Actually, I weight 121# this morning. That is good for me.
I hate my hair. I am thinking of keeping length in the back. Then have sides short and top short and all of it permed.
Saturday is a boring day. Breakfast just cam and I ate. I had stewed prunes, juice, and cereal. My egg wasn't cooked. It was good but I was hungry. I'd probably have eaten anything. Maybe lunch will be better.
Well, I am out of news. Oh, I am going to sell Shaklee products. It is vitamins and things. I hope I can do something with it. I am playing my violin again but it is like starting all over again. But I will get there.
Remember, Betsy, I love you so much. Take care and write me. I love getting letters from you. I miss you. Are you coming to see me this year? I hope so. I am not all drugged. In fact, I am fine mentally. Ii do get depressed. My legs are a bummer. I love you. Take Care.
All my love,
Mom
Well, believe it or not I am in St. Charles Hospital and have been for three days. I have an IV in and sodium and potassium. My electrolytes were all messed up. I feel better now. My legs and feet are a mess here. I wake up at 6 AM. I had some coffee and did some walking. Bob is coming at noon. Monday we would have been married 5 years. We are still married. He can be so nice and then mean at the same time. I think he is giving me an ulcer. When I am in here I have no ulcer pains. When I am home my ulcer is terrible. He wants me to do laundry, get groceries, take him to the bank, etc. I want my freedom. Yet I love him and hate to treat him bad. He wants to take me to the Red Lobster after I get out.
I still need to get the air conditioning in my car fixed. It needs a fuse.
Grandma is still her snippy busy body. I guess she is going to Scotland this summer. She is the Grand Rep. She is a big shot and it has gone to her head.
I am staring. I hope they bring breakfast soon. This is the 1st food I got to choose. So far it have been poor.
So how are you? How is Sandy doing? She called Wednesday. Is she for sure going to San Diego? I think they should be together. What do you think? She sounds happy.
I wrote Kirstie. Tell her I was sick when I wrote her. I love all of you.
I need to go on a new diet called "The Swimsuit Diet." It sounds nutritious. Actually, I weight 121# this morning. That is good for me.
I hate my hair. I am thinking of keeping length in the back. Then have sides short and top short and all of it permed.
Saturday is a boring day. Breakfast just cam and I ate. I had stewed prunes, juice, and cereal. My egg wasn't cooked. It was good but I was hungry. I'd probably have eaten anything. Maybe lunch will be better.
Well, I am out of news. Oh, I am going to sell Shaklee products. It is vitamins and things. I hope I can do something with it. I am playing my violin again but it is like starting all over again. But I will get there.
Remember, Betsy, I love you so much. Take care and write me. I love getting letters from you. I miss you. Are you coming to see me this year? I hope so. I am not all drugged. In fact, I am fine mentally. Ii do get depressed. My legs are a bummer. I love you. Take Care.
All my love,
Mom
Thursday, April 23, 1987
April 23, 1987
Dear Betsy,
I am lonely today and heard my song "You Light Up My Life" on the radio. I cried. I miss you so much. Sandy called collect from Ogden yesterday afternoon. She sounds happy. Mark leaves for San Diego on Saturday and she will soon be in Virginia. Is she planning on working?
Bob came over for breakfast. I fixed some sausage, 2 poached eggs and 2 pieces banana bread. I forgot to give him the sausage. That wasn't too brilliant. I'll heat it up later.
I played the violin for the past 2 days. I am really rusty. I'll probably keep trying through.
I have 3 loads of laundry to do. I dread the thought. It is so hot in there. It makes my feet and legs a mess. I am still getting light headed. My BP is low. I do eat well. I have gained up to 125#.
My curly hair has grown and I don't know what to do. It looks a mess. I had it thinned and that helped. I could let it grow again and have it look a mess for awhile. I could get it cut really short and permed a curly perm. It would be easy to care for.
I went to church on Easter Eve and for Easter. It was so pretty. I had never been to a church like that. I was getting up at 6 or 7 AM now. I wake up early but I just lay in bed. I know I am low on potassium. I take a lot a day.
Bob wants me to come back to him forever. I really don't know what I want. I love him very much and he is good times. He even bought a new queen bed. We each had a twin since we moved here 1 1/2 years ago. I do miss him a lot. I also like my little apartment and privacy so I am confused. I read a lot and it passes time. Why don't you call me some morning before 8 AM (when it gets expensive) I'll hear the phone. I never know when to call you. I miss our talks. I am grateful for your letters and memories. It is so sad I had to get so sick so fast. I feel I lost you and failed you and I can't share your joys and sorrows. I love you very much. I hope you know that. I was so thrilled to have you. You were a wonderful joy. I had you all day every day up those mountains. I used to rock you for so long in my rocker. When Sandy was born I still rocked you too. Then when I fed Sandy you would feed your doll in your little rocker. Those were the good ole days.
I took Bob Tuesday to get groceries. We each spent $35. It sure adds up fast. My cat needed litter and food. Yesterday, I spent $10 more. I had to get all the groceries.
I took a Family Circle cancer risk. That is terrible. I eat well too. I drink more than 2 cups of coffee every day. Nurses love coffee.
My little cat, Kelly is a lot of company. She is so pretty and lovable. She sits in the window a lot. Everyone sees her.
Well, I will close now. You are always in my thoughts and prayers. Remember, I love you honey.
All my love,
Mom
I am lonely today and heard my song "You Light Up My Life" on the radio. I cried. I miss you so much. Sandy called collect from Ogden yesterday afternoon. She sounds happy. Mark leaves for San Diego on Saturday and she will soon be in Virginia. Is she planning on working?
Bob came over for breakfast. I fixed some sausage, 2 poached eggs and 2 pieces banana bread. I forgot to give him the sausage. That wasn't too brilliant. I'll heat it up later.
I played the violin for the past 2 days. I am really rusty. I'll probably keep trying through.
I have 3 loads of laundry to do. I dread the thought. It is so hot in there. It makes my feet and legs a mess. I am still getting light headed. My BP is low. I do eat well. I have gained up to 125#.
My curly hair has grown and I don't know what to do. It looks a mess. I had it thinned and that helped. I could let it grow again and have it look a mess for awhile. I could get it cut really short and permed a curly perm. It would be easy to care for.
I went to church on Easter Eve and for Easter. It was so pretty. I had never been to a church like that. I was getting up at 6 or 7 AM now. I wake up early but I just lay in bed. I know I am low on potassium. I take a lot a day.
Bob wants me to come back to him forever. I really don't know what I want. I love him very much and he is good times. He even bought a new queen bed. We each had a twin since we moved here 1 1/2 years ago. I do miss him a lot. I also like my little apartment and privacy so I am confused. I read a lot and it passes time. Why don't you call me some morning before 8 AM (when it gets expensive) I'll hear the phone. I never know when to call you. I miss our talks. I am grateful for your letters and memories. It is so sad I had to get so sick so fast. I feel I lost you and failed you and I can't share your joys and sorrows. I love you very much. I hope you know that. I was so thrilled to have you. You were a wonderful joy. I had you all day every day up those mountains. I used to rock you for so long in my rocker. When Sandy was born I still rocked you too. Then when I fed Sandy you would feed your doll in your little rocker. Those were the good ole days.
I took Bob Tuesday to get groceries. We each spent $35. It sure adds up fast. My cat needed litter and food. Yesterday, I spent $10 more. I had to get all the groceries.
I took a Family Circle cancer risk. That is terrible. I eat well too. I drink more than 2 cups of coffee every day. Nurses love coffee.
My little cat, Kelly is a lot of company. She is so pretty and lovable. She sits in the window a lot. Everyone sees her.
Well, I will close now. You are always in my thoughts and prayers. Remember, I love you honey.
All my love,
Mom
Sunday, April 19, 1987
April 19, 1987
Dear Betsy,
Thank you so much for writing to me. I really appreciate it. Sounds like everything is going well for you. So you have a great career. I am proud of you. I am glad you are going to VA. I wish we were living closer. I miss you so much.
I went to church at 8 AM then to McDonalds for a sausage biscuit and coffee. It was a beautiful Easter service and cool in the AM. It is going up to 75 degrees today and that is too warm for my legs and feet.
I have to get a fuse for my car so I can have the air conditioning. It is a must for me.
I can't get Bob on the phone . He must have stayed up all night. I must have called 50 times. It is 1 PM now. He gave me a beautiful diamond gold 5 year anniversary ring. It is of 5 diamonds and really very pretty. We will have been married 5 years May 4th. Hard to believe.
This past week I got up 2 mornings and passed out cold. I cut my toes. Banged my knee and gave myself a black cheek bone. So I started setting breakfast up before I went to be but I still get sick. Last Wednesday after 2 days of this I saw the doctor @ 3 PM and my BP was 70/46. He drew blood, etc. I am better now but I sure got low BP. I'll tell you I was scared - afraid to move. My lungs are improving but I cough a lot.
Today Aunt Ida, Grandma and Grandpa went out for a fancy meal. I was given a last minute invitation and said it would be too warm which is true. Know she is mad and pouting. The Eastern Stars have gone to her head. They are even going to Scotland this summer. She is dragging my dad to his grave. She won't do it to me.
Do you know that I love hot peppers, taco salads and Italian food, etc. My stomach never takes it.
My cat Kelly is fine. She only weighs 5# and is so cute. I really love her. You'd love her but she would probably make you wheeze. She is a Siamese.
I haven't heard from Sandy. I hope she is doing good. Did you like Mark? I am glad you and Kirstie could go. It really depressed me the day she got married. I must have cried all day. This disease is really hard to live with. I only wish I were well and not hurt all the time. I have faith and hope and I know God can do miracles. No doctor knows what to do. This disease sure shattered my life and I have lost lots of things but most of all I didn't have my own children. My heart is upset about that. I guess holidays do this to me. Please forgive and understand. I do love you so very much. I remember when you were born, etc.
I will close now. Remember I love you so much and miss you. Give Kirstie my love. Write me soon or call.
All my love,
Mom
Thank you so much for writing to me. I really appreciate it. Sounds like everything is going well for you. So you have a great career. I am proud of you. I am glad you are going to VA. I wish we were living closer. I miss you so much.
I went to church at 8 AM then to McDonalds for a sausage biscuit and coffee. It was a beautiful Easter service and cool in the AM. It is going up to 75 degrees today and that is too warm for my legs and feet.
I have to get a fuse for my car so I can have the air conditioning. It is a must for me.
I can't get Bob on the phone . He must have stayed up all night. I must have called 50 times. It is 1 PM now. He gave me a beautiful diamond gold 5 year anniversary ring. It is of 5 diamonds and really very pretty. We will have been married 5 years May 4th. Hard to believe.
This past week I got up 2 mornings and passed out cold. I cut my toes. Banged my knee and gave myself a black cheek bone. So I started setting breakfast up before I went to be but I still get sick. Last Wednesday after 2 days of this I saw the doctor @ 3 PM and my BP was 70/46. He drew blood, etc. I am better now but I sure got low BP. I'll tell you I was scared - afraid to move. My lungs are improving but I cough a lot.
Today Aunt Ida, Grandma and Grandpa went out for a fancy meal. I was given a last minute invitation and said it would be too warm which is true. Know she is mad and pouting. The Eastern Stars have gone to her head. They are even going to Scotland this summer. She is dragging my dad to his grave. She won't do it to me.
Do you know that I love hot peppers, taco salads and Italian food, etc. My stomach never takes it.
My cat Kelly is fine. She only weighs 5# and is so cute. I really love her. You'd love her but she would probably make you wheeze. She is a Siamese.
I haven't heard from Sandy. I hope she is doing good. Did you like Mark? I am glad you and Kirstie could go. It really depressed me the day she got married. I must have cried all day. This disease is really hard to live with. I only wish I were well and not hurt all the time. I have faith and hope and I know God can do miracles. No doctor knows what to do. This disease sure shattered my life and I have lost lots of things but most of all I didn't have my own children. My heart is upset about that. I guess holidays do this to me. Please forgive and understand. I do love you so very much. I remember when you were born, etc.
I will close now. Remember I love you so much and miss you. Give Kirstie my love. Write me soon or call.
All my love,
Mom
Friday, March 20, 1987
March 20, 1987
Dear Betsy,
I am sorry I haven't called you for your birthday. I am very sick and with a bad chest cold and asthma. I am really wheezing. The doctor put me on choleydol 200 mgm 3x a day and it helps. I cough all the time, etc. I have never had asthma before. Grandpa has it also. I really feel for you. I am glad you are better though. You are had asthma bad when you were little.
I got Sandy's wedding invitation yesterday. I am upset because she didn't say Judith E. Thompson which is my legal name. Bob is upset also. I imagine your Dad and Alison are also. I don't know why she did it that way.
Did you get your birthday present yet? I hope so. Does it fit? I don't know when to call you. When is a good time?
Kelly is fine. She is so cute. I really love her. She sleeps by me and is my baby. She is a tiny pretty Siamese cat. She probably doesn't help my asthma.
I would like to just lay down and sleep away this misery but I won't. I went to bed at 8 PM last night because I was so sick. I had 101 fever, etc. I haven't been sick in 5 years.
I don't know if I can make it to Salt Lake with my legs and feet. I will probably be very miserable. My back is bad again. I have to see the back doctor March 31. I will have to have to x-rays over again. It has been 11 years since I have had trouble. I probably need a back brace or spinal fusion operation. It is perfect these days I understand.
Well, I will close. Write me soon. I love you so much.
All my love,
Mom
I am sorry I haven't called you for your birthday. I am very sick and with a bad chest cold and asthma. I am really wheezing. The doctor put me on choleydol 200 mgm 3x a day and it helps. I cough all the time, etc. I have never had asthma before. Grandpa has it also. I really feel for you. I am glad you are better though. You are had asthma bad when you were little.
I got Sandy's wedding invitation yesterday. I am upset because she didn't say Judith E. Thompson which is my legal name. Bob is upset also. I imagine your Dad and Alison are also. I don't know why she did it that way.
Did you get your birthday present yet? I hope so. Does it fit? I don't know when to call you. When is a good time?
Kelly is fine. She is so cute. I really love her. She sleeps by me and is my baby. She is a tiny pretty Siamese cat. She probably doesn't help my asthma.
I would like to just lay down and sleep away this misery but I won't. I went to bed at 8 PM last night because I was so sick. I had 101 fever, etc. I haven't been sick in 5 years.
I don't know if I can make it to Salt Lake with my legs and feet. I will probably be very miserable. My back is bad again. I have to see the back doctor March 31. I will have to have to x-rays over again. It has been 11 years since I have had trouble. I probably need a back brace or spinal fusion operation. It is perfect these days I understand.
Well, I will close. Write me soon. I love you so much.
All my love,
Mom
Friday, March 13, 1987
March 13, 1987
Dear Betsy,
Your birthday is a good day to put into words the feelings too seldom expressed. Like how special you are, how much you are loved, how you're wished all life's brightest and best …
It is so wonderful having a daughter like you who has such a dear, thoughtful way, and your birthday's a good day to put into words all the joy you put into each day.
Happy Birthday with love,
All my Love,
I love you,
Mom
PS: I hope and pray that you know how very much I love you. I still remember all about you as a precious baby. Now, you are 21 and grown up. Always remember that your mom will love you forever.
Your birthday is a good day to put into words the feelings too seldom expressed. Like how special you are, how much you are loved, how you're wished all life's brightest and best …
It is so wonderful having a daughter like you who has such a dear, thoughtful way, and your birthday's a good day to put into words all the joy you put into each day.
Happy Birthday with love,
All my Love,
I love you,
Mom
PS: I hope and pray that you know how very much I love you. I still remember all about you as a precious baby. Now, you are 21 and grown up. Always remember that your mom will love you forever.
Wednesday, March 4, 1987
March 4, 1987
Dear Betsy,
Well, here is March. I understand you called Sandy last night. She is so excited about getting married. I am so happy for her. I called her at 6:00 her time this morning. Of course I woke her up. I am going to Provo on April 2nd from Detroit and l will leave April 5th. I hope you and Kirstie go. I want to see you. How are you? Betsy, I go to bed early now and up at 6 am. So call me anytime before 8 am. It is cheap then. I am going to wear a powder blue dress with white in it. I hope you like it.
I am at MCO Clinic and hospital. I saw Dr. Hageman, my cardiovascular doctor. He took my left big toe nail off and cut the right one way down. They die with fungus because of the poor circulation. I fell on my left knee three months ago and it has a bump on it. He thought it was a cyst and tried to aspirate it. I had a little blood but no fluid. I rode an exercise bike last night 20 miles for 5 minutes. My heart beat was so fast and my legs about doubled over. I am out of shape. He said to do it 10 miles / 5 minutes for a month and then go to 20 / 5 minutes. Plus I should swim a lot. I wonder where I can swim cheap. Got any ideas? I am writing this while waiting for Bob. He has real problems. His only leg is dying and he will probably do surgery will is they can't do a by-pass. The question is can he survive a by-pass?
he is at least a 6 hour one and of the aorta and renal arteries. He is having more tests now plus x-rays and blood work to determine if his heart can take it. He is in a catch 22 and the prognosis is bad.
I have to stand by him no matter what. We go out together and he eats in my apartment. He is depressed. His Dad died at 44 with CA of rectum. He even died of CA breat and his mom had CA breast. Now has has severe rectal pain and blood. I am worried.
I am home now and about to leave for church for Ash Wednesday services. Bob is sleeping.
I have yours and Kirstie's birthday presents and will try and mail them this week. I hope they fit and you like them.
Take care of yourself. Write or call. I love you dearly and miss you. See you soon.
All my love,
Mom
Well, here is March. I understand you called Sandy last night. She is so excited about getting married. I am so happy for her. I called her at 6:00 her time this morning. Of course I woke her up. I am going to Provo on April 2nd from Detroit and l will leave April 5th. I hope you and Kirstie go. I want to see you. How are you? Betsy, I go to bed early now and up at 6 am. So call me anytime before 8 am. It is cheap then. I am going to wear a powder blue dress with white in it. I hope you like it.
I am at MCO Clinic and hospital. I saw Dr. Hageman, my cardiovascular doctor. He took my left big toe nail off and cut the right one way down. They die with fungus because of the poor circulation. I fell on my left knee three months ago and it has a bump on it. He thought it was a cyst and tried to aspirate it. I had a little blood but no fluid. I rode an exercise bike last night 20 miles for 5 minutes. My heart beat was so fast and my legs about doubled over. I am out of shape. He said to do it 10 miles / 5 minutes for a month and then go to 20 / 5 minutes. Plus I should swim a lot. I wonder where I can swim cheap. Got any ideas? I am writing this while waiting for Bob. He has real problems. His only leg is dying and he will probably do surgery will is they can't do a by-pass. The question is can he survive a by-pass?
he is at least a 6 hour one and of the aorta and renal arteries. He is having more tests now plus x-rays and blood work to determine if his heart can take it. He is in a catch 22 and the prognosis is bad.
I have to stand by him no matter what. We go out together and he eats in my apartment. He is depressed. His Dad died at 44 with CA of rectum. He even died of CA breat and his mom had CA breast. Now has has severe rectal pain and blood. I am worried.
I am home now and about to leave for church for Ash Wednesday services. Bob is sleeping.
I have yours and Kirstie's birthday presents and will try and mail them this week. I hope they fit and you like them.
Take care of yourself. Write or call. I love you dearly and miss you. See you soon.
All my love,
Mom
Friday, February 20, 1987
February 20, 1987
Dear Betsy,
I was so thrilled with your phone call on my birthday and the other day. It is great talking to you. Just think in less than a month you will be 21 years old. It is hard to believe. I am very proud of you. I am glad you are happy and going to college this fall. Will you still work?
I love my beautiful Christmas present. I called Penney's last night and reordere the comforter and sheets. I am taking the others back today. It was so wonderful of you and I was so surprised.
Bob bought me some really pretty bikinis and my 1st teddy. It is lavender and sexy. He is over a lot and we sleep on the hadeaway bed. Don't tell anyone.
Feb 21.
Just talked to you and got your letter. I am glad you and Kermon are back together. Bob is a sickman. He is napping now. I am baking a meat loaf and baked potatoes. I cook a lot and love it. I am gaining some weight. I even have some gray hair on the top of my pretty auburn hair. Did I tell you I had it cut short and a curly perm. All I do is wash it and pick it and it dries on its own. It is cute and I look so much younger. Well, I spent money yesterday at Penneys. I got bikinis and teddy and a beautiful gown set and a nice casual dress. Plus I really felt sexy and got you and Kirstie some beautiful things for your birthdays. I also got myself 2 half slips - perfect.
Grandma and Grandpa are coming back from Florida on Wednesday. I guess they are having a good time. Both are tired.
I read a lot and enjoy that. I watch little TV. Aunt Ida is fine. I go to the South End again tomorrow and will get a coffee pot and eat at Rudys for hot dog and chilli. I go to West Toledo all afternoon today after I go to the point and get Kelly's distemper shot. I sure love my little cat. I made back an eggs today for Bob and I.
Bob's only leg has no pulse in the groin, behind the knee and foot. He has a start of gangreen on 2 toes. He has to have a molecule x-ray of the Aorta on Thursday. They want to do a by-pass. Six years ago they said it was impossible and lost his left leg. He is afraid he can't have a general anesthetic. He is sure he will die. I keep trying to encourage him. I have to go to the same cardivascular doctor Wednesday. My 2 big toes are full of fungus because of bad circulation. One of the toes is full of pus under it. Ugly. Yesterday, my feet got so hot and swollen from shopping. Bob and I went to Friendly's for ice cream and coffee. Then I went to a pharmacy to buy the cheapest ASA I could find. I could bearly walk. None of the clerks would get me water. Well, a customer looked at my red swollen feet and said. I will walk to the pharmacy and get a glass of water and she did. I said God bless you. There are some kind people left in the world after all.
Well, 12 o'clock news says you have loads of snow. We are warm and sunny. I guess I should close and get this in the mail. Write me or call me. I really do love you. I hope all is well with you. Can we see each other soon? Id' love it. Give my love to Kirstie. Tell her, that her once a year letter is long overdue. Take care. I love you.
All my love,
Your mom
I was so thrilled with your phone call on my birthday and the other day. It is great talking to you. Just think in less than a month you will be 21 years old. It is hard to believe. I am very proud of you. I am glad you are happy and going to college this fall. Will you still work?
I love my beautiful Christmas present. I called Penney's last night and reordere the comforter and sheets. I am taking the others back today. It was so wonderful of you and I was so surprised.
Bob bought me some really pretty bikinis and my 1st teddy. It is lavender and sexy. He is over a lot and we sleep on the hadeaway bed. Don't tell anyone.
Feb 21.
Just talked to you and got your letter. I am glad you and Kermon are back together. Bob is a sickman. He is napping now. I am baking a meat loaf and baked potatoes. I cook a lot and love it. I am gaining some weight. I even have some gray hair on the top of my pretty auburn hair. Did I tell you I had it cut short and a curly perm. All I do is wash it and pick it and it dries on its own. It is cute and I look so much younger. Well, I spent money yesterday at Penneys. I got bikinis and teddy and a beautiful gown set and a nice casual dress. Plus I really felt sexy and got you and Kirstie some beautiful things for your birthdays. I also got myself 2 half slips - perfect.
Grandma and Grandpa are coming back from Florida on Wednesday. I guess they are having a good time. Both are tired.
I read a lot and enjoy that. I watch little TV. Aunt Ida is fine. I go to the South End again tomorrow and will get a coffee pot and eat at Rudys for hot dog and chilli. I go to West Toledo all afternoon today after I go to the point and get Kelly's distemper shot. I sure love my little cat. I made back an eggs today for Bob and I.
Bob's only leg has no pulse in the groin, behind the knee and foot. He has a start of gangreen on 2 toes. He has to have a molecule x-ray of the Aorta on Thursday. They want to do a by-pass. Six years ago they said it was impossible and lost his left leg. He is afraid he can't have a general anesthetic. He is sure he will die. I keep trying to encourage him. I have to go to the same cardivascular doctor Wednesday. My 2 big toes are full of fungus because of bad circulation. One of the toes is full of pus under it. Ugly. Yesterday, my feet got so hot and swollen from shopping. Bob and I went to Friendly's for ice cream and coffee. Then I went to a pharmacy to buy the cheapest ASA I could find. I could bearly walk. None of the clerks would get me water. Well, a customer looked at my red swollen feet and said. I will walk to the pharmacy and get a glass of water and she did. I said God bless you. There are some kind people left in the world after all.
Well, 12 o'clock news says you have loads of snow. We are warm and sunny. I guess I should close and get this in the mail. Write me or call me. I really do love you. I hope all is well with you. Can we see each other soon? Id' love it. Give my love to Kirstie. Tell her, that her once a year letter is long overdue. Take care. I love you.
All my love,
Your mom
Thursday, January 22, 1987
before Feb 20, 1987
Dear Betsy,
It was nice to get your letter. I am sorry I haven't written you but I have been really busy moving. I am now in the big tall new building. It is much nicer. People over here are really nice. Bob and I are separated but everything is okay. We are not divorcing. We have a lot of problems but things can be worked out.
Onthe news last night I saw you had a lot of snow. It is cold here but sunny. It looks like summer except for the snow.
I play Euchre and Aggravation a lot in the community room. I take blood pressure every Thursday. I like all the people. I am the youngest here. I read books and magazines.
I am still unpacking. I have a one bedroom apartment. The kitchen is small but I don't need a lot of space. My furniture is nice. I try to keep it picked up. My 45th birthday is soon. My parents always go to Bill Knapps because I will get 45% off my meal and a cake. It will be nice.
Well, I will close now because I have little news. Sorry I haven't written. I hope to write Kirstie tomorrow. Are you working and going to school too? Sorry to hear about you and Kermon. Take care now and write me more often. I hopeyou are feeling better. Remember I love you and miss you very much.
All my love,
Mom
It was nice to get your letter. I am sorry I haven't written you but I have been really busy moving. I am now in the big tall new building. It is much nicer. People over here are really nice. Bob and I are separated but everything is okay. We are not divorcing. We have a lot of problems but things can be worked out.
Onthe news last night I saw you had a lot of snow. It is cold here but sunny. It looks like summer except for the snow.
I play Euchre and Aggravation a lot in the community room. I take blood pressure every Thursday. I like all the people. I am the youngest here. I read books and magazines.
I am still unpacking. I have a one bedroom apartment. The kitchen is small but I don't need a lot of space. My furniture is nice. I try to keep it picked up. My 45th birthday is soon. My parents always go to Bill Knapps because I will get 45% off my meal and a cake. It will be nice.
Well, I will close now because I have little news. Sorry I haven't written. I hope to write Kirstie tomorrow. Are you working and going to school too? Sorry to hear about you and Kermon. Take care now and write me more often. I hopeyou are feeling better. Remember I love you and miss you very much.
All my love,
Mom
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